今天去了Robert爸媽的結婚20週年紀念party
在台北六福皇宮的喜宴
在家裡 把自己弄得美美的
想說今天應景走甜美風
到了那裏 突然覺得自己好醜
有點沮喪
anyway 回來回來
我們家很早就到了
早早入坐還很空曠的會場
我環顧四週
真的得很sweet
玫瑰拱門
一桌中間一大束的粉紅玫瑰
很浪漫的冰雕
紅地毯
還有超甜蜜的巧克力
Robert爸爸今日好帥好紳士
紅絲絨西裝+超有型的黑框眼鏡
看起來好神清氣爽 年輕10歲的感覺
Robert 媽媽太漂亮了
他們重新穿婚紗
重新走紅地毯
20年到現在 能手牽手再結一次婚
一定煞羨每一個人吧
最有趣的是
看著Robert, Justin 和Simon
三個帥哥穿著白色燕尾服走在新婚的爸爸媽媽前
蹦蹦跳跳的 卻要演得很端莊
太可愛了
看著投影片中
Remond叔叔大學時天天在女生宿舍下等Nancy阿姨
偷偷去公證結婚不敢讓對方家長知道
Robert出生時臍帶繞頸 住保溫箱(跟我一樣耶)
Justin和Simon剛生出來肥嘟嘟的樣子
還有從前Robert就是個大哥哥樣子
Justin小碩還沒蛻變成紳士的耍無賴
還有小齊Simon從2歲我認識他就是一樣的可愛討人喜歡
真的好有趣 很溫馨
我一直在想 三個半小時都在想
結婚 是成長的賀禮
愛情 是成家的過程
成家生小孩 組一個屬於自己的家庭
雖然會是負擔 會有辛苦 會有淚水
但 關關難過 關關過
過了以後 回頭看看 一路走來
真的很難得很甜蜜 不是嗎?
Remind 叔叔和Nancy阿姨真的很令人感動
真的很難得
現在這樣的佳偶 這樣的美滿 已經不多了
看了真的感觸好多
雖然從小到現在我總是這樣想
I believe in love but not marriage
I still think so since not every couple can live happily ever after,
and it's so hard to meet someone who can really matches my everything.
I rather don't be involved in that kind of "troubles".
But sometimes, when I see this kind of hopeful examples,
I cannot help but think what if there's some nice guy appeared in my life,
we can get along pretty well and be very close to each other,
would I change my mind?
who knows?
besides, I really thank uncle Remond and Aunt Nancy
for giving me such great friends, Robert, Justin and little cute Simon
and also countless cool experiences and memories.
Thanks for treating me as a part of ur family and ur daughter.
I really appreciate that.
Today, I understood what's happiness.
To be honest, I'm a bit envy,
but at the same time, I have my own happiness right now
cus I have you.
我又看了一次Save the Last Dance
that's my favorite movie ever
after watching so many times
有一句話 今天才第一次真的領悟到
Derek的妹妹告訴Derek
"You can't help who you love, Derek, you're not supposed to."
you're not supposed to help who u love.
人本來就不應該控制自己到底愛誰
when u love him or her, u love. that's it.
ain't no point to care about others.
it might not work, u two might not have a happy ending like those fairy tales,
or it's tougher than anything so far,
none of them matters.
at that point,
u two matter
that fact u love each other matters.
that's all.